Instincts...

Talking about “Love” in generalized manner, usually men follow their instincts while women on the other hand don’t at all, instead women ask for confirmation of the same from men time in and time out, over and over again. Generally how it happens is like this: for an example-

In most cases a boy sees a girl and falls in love with her for some reason (when I say “some reason” it solely depends on the boy’s character and subsequent reasoning.) He then approaches the girl and tells her about the feeling he has and when he does so… somewhere he is prepared for the rejection too however his reaction to the girl’s response depends on how much control he has on his conscience. Some can take it while some can not.

Now, this action of telling the girl about the feeling occurs out of an instinct which is born in the boy’s mind. On the contrary, in such cases when a girl gets to know of the feelings the boy has for her, very rarely she respect it at the very first instance, she may respect it but that takes a while as she seek a confirmation of that feeling (when I say “that takes a while” I mean it needs to be proven by the boy to a girl that his feelings are genuine someway or the other) maybe by the means of offering something as a gift or doing something for her or maybe even by proving her suspicious mind that she will be "secured" with him; she will be "happy" with him; she will have all comforts in her life with him; so on and so forth but she hardly consider challenging her own conscience and her own instincts because if the boy is ready to do all the things that the girl expects then there is no reason for her to ask her conscience about it or to even rely on her instincts as then she is convinced by the proofs given to her by the boy, which ideally by human law* (* Please refer IPC for further info on human law and crimes against women) gives her the sole right to blame the boy for every wrong that happens to her later on in spite of her own ignorance of her instincts.

Well, there are many ladies around who are proud of their ignorance of their own instincts and they are always up and ready to target the MEN KIND for every wrong happens to them, the reason is simple and even scientifically proven ... they do not have balls to face it... and with a lose use of a word it can be said as a cowardice :P